Sex And Marriage: Five Reasons Do It Before You Say I Do

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Yeah, I know, sex is a big deal and it comes with a lot of responsibilities. No one should be having sex till they can fully be accountable for their actions. With sex, you have to be fully prepared as it can emotionally tie you down with the wrong person, lead to unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases and so many other terrible consequences. With all of that, it is enough to say that you should put off sex till you get married but sex before marriage also has its advantages. Listed below are some of the reasons why you should have sex before you get married:

1.     To Find out If You’re Sexually Compatible With Your Partner: sex is very important in every marriage. In fact, it is one of those things that keep a relationship alive. And where there is no chemistry between couples, their sex life is automatically going to be dead. The woman feels like the husband is forcing her against her will and the man feels like he is being starved. Having sex before marriage helps you to discover if he is the kind of man you want to be romantically involved with for the rest of your life. It helps you eliminate, to an extent, the sexual drama that comes in many relationship.

2.      To Discover Sexual Related Problems And Solve It:  there are so many people that get the rudest shocks of their lives on their wedding night. They find out their husband is impotent or the wife has one disease or the other. Having sex before marriage helps you to tackle issues like this way before your wedding night. The fact that you both can solve something as intimate as sexual related health issues means you both have formed a bond really great that will be helpful in the future when you both get married.

3.     For Sexual Experience: it is undeniable that sex before marriage will make you a sexpert; in most cases though and this will help you have a better sex life when you’re married. After all, you would have tried out different sex styles and discovered which you’re comfortable with and which you’re not comfortable with. It becomes easier to learn more about your partner’s sexuality and share experiences together, creating even a better bond between you guys.

4.     It Is Healthy And Natural: sex is very healthy and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it. In fact, sex is a good way to  keep your immune system humming, boost your libido, lower blood pressure, improve women’s bladder control and it is a good form of exercise to shed some weight. So, sex is an awesome way to keep your body in shape.

5.     People Will Do It Anyway: no matter how much people condemn sex before marriage, so many people still do it. I mean, these days it is almost normal to be sexually active once they “feel” they can handle it. The rate of teenage pregnancies is increasing and so also is the number of people that lose their lives to abortion. So talks, campaigns or sermons won’t stop people from having premarital sex.

I know some may feel these are not strong points enough to have sex before getting hitched. In fact, I’m not advising anybody to. All I’m saying is sex is not a terrible thing. You have the right to explore your sexuality without feeling guilty. If you want to have sex with your partner, make sure it is because you want to and not because you’re pressured to. Once you can take full responsibility for your actions and you’re ready to bear the consequences that is attached with premarital sex, you’re free to have all the sex you want.

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North West Inspired “A Generation Of Natural Hair Girls”, Vogue Claims

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In Honor of North Wests’ second birthday, a Vogue writer might have gotten it all wrong with her ode to the toddler’s curls.

In an article which was published on Vogue.com, the writer claims that 2-year-old North has been an inspiration to an entire generation of girls to rock “natural hair.

The twist to this story is that North West is just two and there are a thousand babies out there rocking their natural locks including Blue Ivy who is way older than Nori.

In what was supposed to be an ode to North, the writer says;

I’ve been charmed by the sleek styles that Kim and Kanye’s offspring has sported as she sits front row at Fashion Week on her mother’s lap, arriving to ballet class in custom Balmain blazers, or globetrotting to far-flung locales on family trips.

Whether a top bun or a comb-over, North’s pint-sized hair styles complement her fashion-forward play clothes, while remaining refreshingly easy and age-appropriate. They’ve established little Nori as a kind of hair icon for a nascent and diverse generation of tots rocking their natural curls with unprecedented flair

We think this was the writers best attempt to win over the Kardashian/West clan, What do you think people?

 

 

 

 

 

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#Ladies Only: 21 Amazingly Cute Pet Names To Call Your Boyfriend (1)

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Some pet names are so old school and they would not generate the needed spark and smile on the face of your boyfriend. It is thus necessary to update your vocabulary with new and sexy names that are guaranteed to make your boyfriend swoon. Perhaps you’re just looking for adorable names that will get your boyfriend annoyed when you call him such in front of his friends or some which his family can use to tease him endlessly.

Almost everyone has a pet name which they call their lovers even if the name is only reserved for the inner recess of their bedroom. Pet names like “Baby” and “honey” get old and mainstream, then a girl has got to dig further to get newer and sexier names. Fear not as we bring to you twenty-one pet names which are guaranteed to make everyone else around you feel nauseated and annoyed.

Snookums
This is perhaps one of the cutest pet names ever that a man or woman can call their better half. There’s a caveat here though, “snookums” is guaranteed to raise an eye or snide remarks from anybody around that is not in the relationship, it is sweet to say and also brings out the fun in you. Try saying it a few times and you’d see it has a way the words roll off the tongue.

Honey Buns
Well, what name can possibly be better than “Honey buns?” especially when you say it with a sensual smile on your face. If you’re dating a man with a good sense of humor, he will definitely love this and smile back at you which might perhaps lead to something more in the bedroom.

Sugar Daddy
If your Boyfriend is a Disco type of dude, then, “Sugar Daddy” is the name to call him. This is to say if he’s got a few years on you, then you’re sure to make him swoon on you when you call him this.

Love Muffin
Love Muffin is a sweet name that would surely get a eye roll from your friend as you call him with this pet name. This name achieves 2 things; it meets the sweetness standard your boyfriend needs and also guaranteed to annoy your friends.

Sexy
Call him this just because he is.

Good Lookin’
This name will definitely boost your man’s ego especially when he’s around his crazy friends. The pet name to boost his ego – especially when he’s around all his hunky friends.

Sugar Pop
This is definitely the name to call your man to make him feel mushy. The name gives off an air of being in charge while also retaining the sweetness of a pet name.

Studly
This is surely the name to call your man if he’s the type that works out regularly or shows off his muscles. It would also help to call him this name if he exudes limitless self-confidence, especially if you love him for it.

Romeo
“Romeo” is the name for the romantic guy and make him feel special by calling him this.

Sexy Devil
This is the pet name to call your guy when you’re in the mood for a bit of bedroom action and you want to call out to him in a sexy manner. Of course, it is essential you add a bit of seductive look and action to pass the information across.

To be continued…

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BOLLY LOMO TALES: “You Don’t Do That”

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Ever tried getting into a club like some “cool kids” only to get beaten up? Bolly shares his ordeal.

#360Nobs & #iCirculate have decided to bring you @BollyLomo’s tales past a 15 second #instagram video post. It’s only fair that we had Bolly give you the full gist of his daily encounters.

Here’s the third episode of BollyLomo’s tale

Click here to view the embedded video.

 

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JORDAN’S JUICE: What Pop Culture Means To Me And Why The Hashtag #TheJordanBrand

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It’s been a tad while I blogged, I mean, this I do on a regular basis, but for quite some time, I have been fascinated as to who I am and why I have decided to tread on this path I am on.

If it be possible, I’d love to perceive the crispness that comes from opening the new page of a book, perhaps understand the relationship that exists between the ballpoint of my pen and these pages I am about to scribble on. It gives me life.

Many a time, I have been questioned by so many people, who seemingly thought I was just some mortal that has chosen to be a way-ward, or a rebel (as the case may be), and it took the intelligent and the very learned amongst this lot, to comprehend the spirit that guides my actions, my everyday life.

Superhuman? No. A Non-Conformist? Heck Yes! It took me many years to assimilate my kind of person. I would literally refuse to do things the same way everyone does theirs. This habit which fast became a character, got me as much enemies as it got me friends. I’ll seldom sit and have a sober reflection on why I took a particular decision, but only when I am content with its actions. The aftermath.

An oil spill on a perfect canvas, I gradually nurtured myself in the Pop Culture path. Now I guess that’s where we are headed. As popular as certain cultures are, I am selective of what I want the general populace to see me as. My inner being had a sexual intercourse with my mind, and I figured, I am just not set to conform.

When my parents gave birth to me, a score and some years back, they christened me Jordan Abiola with my family’s name Bolade. All through high school, everyone knew the intelligent boy as Abiola (This is a Yoruba word which means – We gave birth to Wealth). I’d spare you the story, but I stuck to Jordan after high school and fast forward to this moment, I am Jordan Abiola.

Although of the science discipline, I have always loved entertaining and out of my quest and yearn to be different, the need to make myself stand out pioneered #TheJordanBrand which is basically everything that is to be known about the boy, Jordan Abiola. I loved the entirety of Popular Culture.

According to Wikipedia, Pop Culture is the entirety of ideas, perspectives, attitudes, images, and other phenomena that are within the mainstream of a given culture, especially Western Culture.

A cultural phenomenon that facilitates how things are done, Pop Culture to me, depicts a widely accepted group of practices or customs. So you are quite excused if I come across to you as a fun seeker, fashion enthusiast, talkative, sex symbol, lover boy or whatever you can come up with in your thoughts.

With over 7 years of experience with TV Presenting, Acting, Music, Fashion, Writing and Content development, it’s been an admixture of fun and very unpleasant times. I currently work with one of Africa’s largest media outfit as a Senior Content Coordinator and Writer and it really gladdens my heart that I am expressing myself in different ways that I can.

Talk about making your passion, your profession.

Last week, I was in the University of Lagos as I honored my appointment with a particular photographer, Caster Klicks. He picked up interest with what I associate myself with and pleaded with me we do a photoshoot. I of course, Obliged.

I do hope you find the Hobo themed photoshoot as appealing as my personality is. My name is Jordan Abiola and this and more, is what #TheJordanBrand is all about.popculture360nobsIMG_4793 popculture360nobsIMG_4794 popculture360nobsIMG_4877 popculture360nobsIMG_4879 popculture360nobsIMG_4880 popculture360nobsIMG_4952 popculture360nobsIMG_4959 popculture360nobsIMG_4965

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ASK NK: Help! I Need To Lose Weight

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Ask NK

NK is someone you can always count on to get you in check because she gives it to you like it is. Each week, you can email a question of your choice and Instagram name to ask.nikolai@yahoo.com for her honest thoughts and opinions. NK will respond to three questions on Saturdays and give those special 360Nobs readers a shout out on her post. She’s leaving no stone unturned and answering all your questions about entertainment, relationships, friendships, sex, love, education and much more. Ask away and don’t hesitate!

Abayomi O

i’m in love wit this girl but we haven’t seen ourselves face to face and i think she’s in love wit me too she has a daugther for a guy and she said it was a mistake and that she does not want to make the same mistake she made before with me i want to marry her the fact that she has not seen me before she left Nigeria is 1 reason why she is being reluctant to be with me i dont know what to do to win a heart i don’t have money to fly over to where she is right now  pls i need your advice on this

 

NK

Abayomi my dear, you are a darling! First of all, kudos to you for accepting her daughter. A lot of men let their egos get in the way of accepting another woman’s child. I would suggest that you give the lady a bit more time to evaluate the situation at hand. In our society, having a child out of wedlock is frowned upon and being a single mother is an extremely difficult task. A single mother needs to make sure that she fully trusts, respects and understands the new man in her life before bringing him into both she and the child’s lives. Pictures, phone calls or chat messages can’t compare to the physical attributes and touch of a human body but, give her a few months to get to know the “real Abayomi” some more. She will love that and sooner or later, will be able to make a decision. Remember not to put all your eggs in one basket, but stay hopeful.

 

Nnena I

NK, I’ve been struggling with my weight all throughout my life and I’ve started trying to lose weight. Do you have any tips for people who are starting to live a healthier lifestyle?

 

NK

Nne, I’m so happy that you’ve decided to take a step in the right direction to improve your health. My sister recently lost a lot of weight and she inspires me daily. Here are three main tips I would give to someone who’s starting to lose weight:

  1. Make sure you understand the ‘process’ that you’re about to embark on. You’re about to adopt a new lifestyle which requires you to be mentally, socially, emotionally and physically ready for the challenge.
  2. Don’t diet! For someone who has struggled with weight all throughout their life, dieting can seem like death. Begin by incorporating more fruits/ vegetables in your daily meal, drinking more water and cutting back on the sugars and fatty meals. I know it sounds like the typical advice we always get, but it works! Very soon your fruits and vegetables will replace junk food snacks and water will become your favorite beverage of life! This will help get rid of the belly fat and sluggish behavior.
  3. Start off slow and steady with exercise. Try taking a walk in the morning for 30 minutes before beginning your other daily activities. I encourage you not to be afraid of the gym anymore and start going AT LEAST twice a week. If you don’t know how to use a machine, ASK other gym members or the gym attendants themselves for help. Don’t be shy, they will assist you. Also, you can always get dumbbells to use at home when you have some spare time. As you start making progress in your workout routine, you can take on more rigorous activities.

 

Jasmine P

Hi.

I’m a Nigerian and about to go to college but don’t know what I exactly want to study. My parents want me to be a doctor, but I really don’t want to become one. What do you suggest I do NK, or how should I confront my parents?

 

NK

Hey girlie! I completely understand where you’re coming from. Nigerian parents LOVE to hear the sound of a doctor, lawyer or engineer in their families and tend to want such career paths for their children. They fail to realize that not ‘everyone’ wants to have those professions. I would like for you to take some time during this to start getting organized. Have a seat, grab a pen and paper to make a list of things you like doing and careers you could potentially see yourself working towards. What job is it that you (Jasmine) can find enjoyable, but yet profitable? Take a second to think about this and present your ideas to your parents. They should be able to help guide you in the right direction to choose a major for you to study in college. Nigerian parents can be tough, trust me…I know! Even though they can be a struggle, they love it when you have a plan. Also, look into getting some internship opportunities and volunteering within your field of choice. This will be a great start towards achieving your future goals and objectives.

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Friday Fashion Tips! Wedding Guest Outfit Inspiration

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Summer is upon us (even if it does not affect us in Nigeria) and with so many weddings around the corner, one tends to get confused over what best suits a summer wedding.

But as usual, you need not worry because we got you like Beyonce got Jay Z.

This weekend, it’s only safe to show up at your event feeling like a wedding guest pro and a little girly in a floral dress. Just like the wedding rule states, do not keep it too short or tight, opt for a classic midi.

We have sorted out a combination that looks stylish, classy and sexy all at the same time.

 

Summer wedding guest

 


Lipsy bodycon dress
$57 – houseoffraser.co.uk

Oasis gray purse
$48 – oasis-stores.com

Michael kors bracelet
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Ribbon earrings
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Have a fashionably stylish weekend!!!

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Trend Alert! Off-The-Shoulder Dresses Are IN For Wedding Guests

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What I love most about fashion is it being dynamic.

The off-the-shoulder trend was a big fashion trend back in the days and just when we least expected, they are finding their way back into our closets and stealing every show.

The off-the-shoulder style is a good way of showing off little skin in the right place while remaining classy and stylish. Although this trend has been around for a while now but they have recently started gaining more attention .

What’s more is that this style flatters almost all figures and there is no limit as to who can wear the off-the-shoulder dress. A good number of ladies these days have a piece or two, as it is a perfect addition to any girls wardrobe.

Check out some fabulous off-the-shoulder styles!

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Images: holyfashionista.weebly.com, kamdora.com, fashionpolicenigeria.com

Instagram: @ozinna, @mocheddah, @_komee, @verygoodbadgurl

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Beyonce Flashes Boobs In Sexy New Photo

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Beyonce does not regularly show off her boobs but when she does you just have to appreciate it.

The 33-year-old superstar took to her personal website to share a sexy braless photo of herself. The sexy singer was clad in a pair of tiny hot pants paired with a flannel shirt strategically unbuttoned in a way that she flashes her boobs and hot bod.

The other of one wore her hair long down and a hat which read “Bow Down” as she poses seductively for the camera.

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Amber Rose Flaunts Her BOOTYful Body In Maxi Dress Covered In $100 Bills

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When life gives you curves, don’t be afraid to flaunt it and that’s exactly what Amber Rose does.

The 31-year-old model and mother of one was spotted out in West Hollywood wearing a clinging dress covered in a pattern of $100 bills. The sleeveless maxi dress which featured a low neckline held onto her body in the right places, while accentuating her shapely figure.

We love what we see Amber, werk it girl!

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Our Top 5 Fashionable Father’s Day Gifts

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Father’s day is this Sunday, June 21st and it’s a day to appreciate all the lovely dads around the world.

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Kendall Jenner Steals The Show In Thigh-high Split Dress At Fragrance Bash In NYC

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Kendall Jenner looked heavenly as she stepped out for the Fragrance Foundation Awards in New York City on Wednesday.

The 19-year-old super model showed off her toned long legs in a fiery red dress which was slashed to the thighs. The dress featured just one sleeve with shoulder cut-outs and was cinched at the waist with a shiny dark grey belt.

She completed the look with a pair of strappy black pointed-toe pumps and glammed it up with jewel-encrusted floral earrings and sparkling bracelets.

The Keeping Up With The Kardashians star was all dolled up to support members of the fragrance industry, whom were honored at the awards ceremony for their work in perfumery.

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4 Reasons Why Bad Boys Get All The Girls

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Everyone has at one time or the other heard a stereotypical statement that “women love bad boys” and it so seems there is some truth in the statement that goes beyond the stereotype it has come to be known for. The statement is mostly made by the good guys as they whine about how they are cheated. However, the truth behind the statement may be a little more than we expect, given the findings of a recent study that concluded that men with supposed “bad boy” traits including behavioural traits like disagreeableness, narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellianism as a matter of fact get to have more romantic partners than the otherwise humble and good guys.

Well, this is not to say we are in any way suggesting that any guy should become a bad boy in order to get the ladies or that all women love the bad guys, instead, this article presents one or two things good guys can learn from supposedly bad boys to become a well rounded and sought after person. Of course, these things exclude the pompous and jerk attitude. Follow us as we talk about the 4 interesting facts below.

Bad boys will talk to any woman they meet
The bad boys are always ready to take the bull by the horns and seize the moment. The nice guys will spend much time building up the courage to walk up and lay his mind bare to the woman he has known for years and why he waits, over 10 bad guys would have already walked up to her. She would have most probably been dating one out of the 10 while the nice guy is mentally psyching himself up to walk up to her.

The bad boy who takes so much pride in self importance has no issues whatsoever with grappling with the things to say, even if he meets more than fifty girls in a month. More so, he doesn’t wallow in self pity if 49 out of the 50 girls reject him as he is happy with that 1 he is successful with especially since it puts him above the good guys who are afraid to talk to any girl they like.

Bad boys are confident
The truth is a lot of people have a dislike for guys that are cocky and full of pride but even more truthful is the fact that most people tend to dislike whiny and needy guys much more. A bad guy may have a lot of negativities but his “Who cares what anybody thinks of me?” demeanor is much more acceptable and attractive than the “I suck so much, I can’t get a date” attitude of a lot of nice guys. Thus, regarding attracting women, confidence plays a huge role and it always beats insecurity all the time.

Bad boys are charming
Women love to be charmed with looks, appearance and overall attitude and this attribute is a key feature of bad boys. Bad boys are manipulative charmers who can use humor and compliments on a girl to the fullest even when they don’t mean it. By the time a nice guy is able to mutter an awkward “I kind of like you” statement, she’s already far gone with the bad guy.

Bad boys will talk to even the most conservative of women
Any guy that has been to a club can relate to seeing girls who seem out of place and appear to hate every moment they spend therein like they were dragged there by their friends. These kind of girls look around and seem to focus their attention on any guy that has the guts to look their way and approach them. These girls are turnoffs for most guys but not for the bad boys who take their hostility in stride and allow it have no effect whatsoever on them.

The bad boy uses his charm to approach these hostile girls and builds a connection. Same thing goes for girls that most guys are afraid to approach or women that most guys think are way “out of their league”. You may have asked yourself a few times why a pretty girl you know is with a bad boy, it’s mostly because the good guys were too scared to approach her.

This is not to say that guys must be bad to make the world more interesting, but the world needs more confident guys who are willing to take the risk to approach and get to know all types of women. If this process is left to the bad guys, they will continually get most of the good women.

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Rihanna Puts In Leggy Work In Mini Denim Dress At Dior’s Runway Show

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Go Riri…

Rihanna is the poster girl for major fashion house Dior and she is putting in work even at runway shows.

The singer was the VIP guest at Dior’s Autumn Winter 2015 show at the National Art Center in Tokyo, and as the runaway presentation’s star attendee, she wowed in a custom made dress from the luxury brand.

The pop-star looks amazing in the custom made mini denim dress which she paired with lace up boots from Dior’s resort collection, finishing the look with head to toe Dior accessories.

Riri also completed her look with a Diorama handbag from the Autumn 2015 collection and added some sunglasses.

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Meet The World’s Biggest Plus-Sized Super Model, Tess Holliday

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Tess Holliday has been the face of multiple high-profile fashion brands, been featured in Italian Vogue and boasts a loyal following of more than 850,000 users on Instagram.

The largest model who wears an Australian size 26 and weighs over 110 kilograms is the first to be signed to a mainstream modelling agency, Milk Model Management.  Holliday is the face of a new wave of women eschewing the traditional rail-thin model mould and embracing their bodies the way they are.

Los Angeles-based Holliday describes herself as an activist, aiming to change the way the fashion industry makes women feel about themselves.

“I’m a plus-size model and body positive activist, which basically means I talk about issues with body image, and how media and society play a negative and positive role in our lives and relationships with our bodies,” she said.

“I started my body positive movement Eff Your Beauty Standards as my ‘Eff You’ to the ‘rules’ of what plus women are told we should and shouldn’t wear.”

The Eff Your Beauty Standards movement has been a runaway success, with thousands of people sharing photos online using the hashtag #effyourbeautystandards.

The movement encourages embracing your looks and defying traditional beauty norms, celebrating curves, body hair, tattoos and bold fashion choices.

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